圣经对关于人结婚的教训.
一. 人结婚是一男一女的结合. (可10:2-9)
男与男,或是女与女结合是违背神的旨意.
违背神的旨意必定会受刑罚.男与男结婚的结局就是身体和魂生命的毁灭!(罗1:18-27)
这是圣经罗马书一章十八到二十七节清楚的教训!
若是有人有任何别的意见,或是别的说法.请找使徒保罗提出.因为是他负责写的!
我知道他会告诉你,是神自己叫他写的!这样你就要到神那里提出了!
二. 英文里有一个这样的字,"淫乱"!
淫乱(fornication)的意思就是没有结婚关系的两个身体的联合.
我们今天的语言表达是不道德的性行为.
人要逃避淫乱的事,因为其他的罪是在身体外,但是淫乱的罪是得罪自己的身体. (林前6:18)
三. 结婚是神将他们连接起来!
主耶稣说:结了婚的夫妻不再是两个人,乃是二人成为一个肉体了!
神所结合的,人不可分开.(马太福音19:6)
这是非常重要的.结婚是神结合的.人不可分开.(我所能明白的,就是只有非人才可分开!)
离婚就是直接挑战神的旨意!
四. 有一个理由是可以离婚的! (太5:31-32)
主耶稣说:古人说,若有人离弃他的妻子,就要给她离婚书.
但是我告诉你们,一个人离弃妻子,除非是因为淫乱的缘故,就是叫她成为淫妇,人若娶了她,就是犯了淫乱!
五. 复活的时候是没有婚姻的!
有人问耶稣,有七兄弟,大哥结了婚,没有儿子,就死了.他二弟娶嫂嫂为兄留后,没儿子死了.
七兄弟都这样死了.后来妇人也死了.请问,在复活的时候,这妇人是谁的妻?
主耶稣回答:你们错了!你们不知道经书所说的!也不知道神的大能!
在复活的时候是没有嫁娶的,他们是与天使一样!
六.夫妻当怎样相处?(以弗所书5:22-28)
妻子要顺服自己的丈夫,如同顺服主基督.因为丈夫是妻子的头,如同基督是教会的头,也是教会的救主!
正如教会顺服基督,妻子要凡事顺服自己的丈夫!
丈夫要爱自己的妻子,如同基督爱教会,为教会舍己.丈夫要爱妻子如同爱自己的身子!
七. 三句良言可帮助保持婚姻!
1. 要清楚是两个完全人的结合!(林后6:14,腓立比书2:2)
不可单是两个肉体的结合!完全人是有三条命!身体,魂,灵.
一男一女结婚的时候,必须是身体,魂和灵的合一!
这样的结合才能同有一个生活爱好的目标,一个头脑,一个意念!
2. 生气,不可犯罪!不可叫日头下山,你还生气!(以弗所书4:26)
发怒生气是正常人生必有的!是帮助追求长进的力量!隐藏怒气是非伤害身心的!很危险的!
生气,不可犯罪的界线是什么?发怒的时候,开始想要骂人的时候,就已犯了罪!
若是等到,打人,就已经犯了罪!这是可以控制的!请记得!不要越过界线!
3. 实践爱的真正意义!(哥林多前书13:5)
这里有一样爱的意义,翻译"不记人的恶"是不完全的!
应该是这样:爱的一个意义是要记人所作的恶!但不要报仇!罗马书12:19节有清楚吩咐,
不可自己报仇!因为主说伸冤在神,神必报应!
人所作的恶要记.才是有爱心!记来提醒犯罪的人,不可再犯罪!使受害的人,不再受害!
The Bible says about marriage!
A. Marriage is the join together a male and a female. (Mk.10:2-9)
Marriage between a male and a male or a female and a female is against the will of God!
The consequence of such disobedient to God’s will is destruction of the bodies and their souls. (Ro.1:18-27)
Like it or not it is recorded in Ro.1:18-27!
Anyone wants to argue, they have to argue with God, or with the one who wrote these or with the Bible!
B. The English word that pronounce as fornication!
Fornication means the union of two bodies outside of marriage!
Our today’s translation this word means sexual immorality!
1 Cor.6:18 says, people are to flee from fornication.
And it says, every sin that a man commit is outside the body,
but he that committed fornication sinned against his own body.
My God’s given job is to share what the Bible says!
C. Marriage is a God has joined together!
Jesus said: So that they are no more two, but one flesh.
God has joined together, let not man put asunder. (Matt.19:6)
To me this can only mean, once you are married, you get stuck for as long as you live!
Unless one is not man!
Because the Bible says, let not man put asunder!
The separation of a marriage is a direct repudiation of God’s will!
D. There is one reason for a divorce! (Matt.5:31-32)
It was said, whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
(Jesus himself gave this reason!) but I say unto you, that every one that put away his wife,
saving for the cause of fornication, make her an adulteress:
and whosoever shall marry her when she is put away committed adultery.
E. In resurrection there is no given in marriage. (Matt.22:28-29)
… Jesus answered and said unto them, ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.
In the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as angels in heaven.
F. How the two are to function after the are married? (Eph.5:22-28)
Wives, be in subjection unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the church,
being himself the Savior of the body.
As the church is subject to Christ, let the wives also be to their husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it.
Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies.
G. Three remedies to help keep them together.
1. Marry one who is a healthy being! (2 Cor.6:14, Phil.2:2
This means one has a healthy body, soul and spirit!
This way the two may have the same love, mind and purpose in life!
2. Be ye angry, and sin not:
let not the sun go down upon your anger. (Eph.4:26)
3. Love record wrongs but not get even. (1 Cor.13:5, Ro.12:19)
May the Lord bless you and keep you! March, 1, 2008.