Does this man worthy of your doing these?
A. Spend all your life with him. Mark 10:6-12
1. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband lives;
but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will;
only in the Lord. 1 Cor.7:39
2. Marriage is a male and a female become one flesh. Mk.10:6-8
Marriage is God has joined them together, let man not separate. Mk.10:9
3. Think about this:
As a follower of Christ, you must have a heart desire that your husband is a saved man in the church!
You love to see that he is zealously involved in the Lord’s work in the church!
4. While he dates you, does he respect or care about your wish?
It is simple to find out! All you need to is tell him, I wish so much that you are in church with me!
If his answer is a spontaneously yes and happily come with you!
You have a chance! Any other kind of answer is a no, no! Don't be naïve!
5. Remember if he became your husband,
he is to love you to the point that he is willing to give up his life for you!
This is God’s design! This is the kind of man God wants you to marry!
6. The 1st time he ignored your wish, God is telling you, he is not the man!
The 2nd time usually is pretension, because you are too sexy to him!
Satan can’t get away with this one! Satan can’t fool a man of God!
B. Does this man worthy that you let him take control of your body?
1. When comes to serious thing like this I do not trust NIV translation!
I go for ASV or KJV!
NIV--> The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband.
KJV--> The wife has not power of her own body, but the husband.
2. Let just talk about while you are deep asleep in bed with him!
Can you trust him, that he will not do anything abnormal with your body?
3. If you can’t trust him this much, be prepared much money for counseling and lots of sleeping peels!
4. May I say this!
If a man has not enough respect for God’s word and come to follow Christ together with you,
you will not have this trust!
This trust is deep down within you! In your subconscious!
Trust me on this one, I had courses of psychology, normal and abnormal!
5. If you can’t find a man who is worthy that you let him take control of your physical body.
It is better that you stay single! Yes, you can!
C. Does this man worthy that you submit yourself to him? Eph.5:24
1. When comes to way of life!
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,
so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Eph.5:24
2. When comes to preaching in worship service at the church!
Let your women keep silence in the churches;
for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience,
as also said the law. 1 Cor.14:34
3. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home;
for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 1 Cor.14:35
D. Yes, Jesus said, you can stay single! Matt.19:10-12
1. His disciples say unto him:
If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
2. But he said unto them: All men can’t receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb:
and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men:
and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake.
He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
May the Lord bless you and keep you always! Preach this on Jan., 22, 2012.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRPY5GaIXY4